Certified Massage Therapist specializing in Nuru, and Thai Medicinal Massage.

True GFE – Genuine affection, adoration, and tantric exploration.


Escape to a place where freedom resides, desires are heard, and eroticism abounds. True connection, deep relaxation, safe exploration. Returning to a long lost lover, here to help you move past a life of conditioned beliefs and cultural stigmas surrounding our intimate needs.

After a hiatus from the industry I am back and now offer a getaway in my lovely secluded beach house nestled by the sea in Ventura county near Mussel Shoals, CA.

I offer time and space in my own home and my real life.

A beautifully decorated, dedicated Nuru room, that will make you too feel right at home, allowing you to relax and truly let go.

Awaken all your senses through my pampering touch, genuine connection, and desire.

Pleasure like you’ve never imagined!




These are unique times and with that come unique measures.

My home is in a tiny little seaside town that is entirely secluded from neighboring towns.

I have everything I need delivered so as to limit my exposure to the outside world.

I am therefore able to safely social distance with ease.

As a former (and still sexy) nurse and active holistic health provider I am always hyper-vigilant about minimizing risk factors in my work/living space.

Safety on all levels has always been a top priority.

I am only offering extremely limited appointments and only with clients who are also practicing safe social distancing.

If you fit this description I would be happy to offer you an appointment, as I continue to feel safe and comfortable doing so.

If you are NOT, I would still love to see you, however prefer that we wait until a later date.

It’s up to each of us to take care of ourselves and one another.


I am a small/petite, fit, healthy, educated, relaxed, genuine and experienced woman.

I am a yogi with immaculate self care, and advanced knowledge of biohacking and longevity solutions, a certified Massage Therapist and Loveologist.

My offerings as BendyGirl are a culmination of my life’s study and interests, lovingly shared with and tailored to you, your needs, your desires.

I own and run two other non related businesses however and thus am only able to offer only very limited appointments as time permits.

Due to this please please provide me a day or two notice so that I may best prepare for our time together.

It is my highest joy to offer you a warm welcoming heart and soft place to land. 

I offer you genuine friendship, mutual worship, endless pleasure. I will nurture you, care for you, as a true healer, teacher and friend. No clock watching, just precious revitalizing time well spent together.

Melt into loving Tantra and Nuru.

Masculine relaxation from the spirit of the divine feminine.

I offer a bevy of Therapies listed in detail on my site, all inclusive of optional:

DFK, GFE, MSOG and Anal Kink/Prostate Massage.

*Please note, that Anal Kink refers to anal pleasures, not domination. And that while I very much enjoy a variety of anal play with yours, I do not enjoy anal play with mine.


Please fill out of the form found on my website here:

Please note I prefer only to see those that are age 35+

THE video back by request, now available in my latest blog: